You are not Broken. Reclaim Your Body, Your Love, Your Fire.
I help high-achieving entrepreneurs and leaders release what holds them back and step into a vibrant life of embodied intimacy, lasting love, and unshakable resilience.
Whether you're flying solo or navigating love with a partner, or need support as a film/tv creative, you are in the right place. Your Body Knows the Way—Love, Passion & Freedom Await.
Reclaim Confidence, Connection, and Comfort in Your Body
If intimacy feels confusing, stressful, or out of reach — you’re not broken. You may need tools that meet you where you are. I help individuals, couples, and creatives in film/TV express real intimacy — starting with safety, clarity, and confidence in your body and communication.
What You’ll Gain
- Less anxiety and overthinking around sex, touch, or emotional closeness
- Stronger boundaries— knowing what you want, what’s okay, and how to say it.
- Deeper connection in your relationships—with yourself and others
- More comfort in your skin — whether in private or in front of a camera
- Tools to speak up, slow down, and stay present — especially in challenging moments
- Freedom from — the echoes of past trauma, allowing for genuine intimacy.
- Emotional resilience — when facing emotional triggers in intimate settings.
How We Get There
You’ll get support that’s trauma-informed, body-based, and practical. My approach blends coaching with gentle bodywork and somatic practices like:
- TRE® to release stress and stored tension
- Somatic DeArmouring and nervous system regulation
- Communication tools grounded in consent and clarity
- Body awareness so you can feel and trust what’s true for you
- Ancient wisdom of Tantra and conscious Kink for transformation
This Is For You If…
- You want to stop people-pleasing and start showing up honestly
- You’re tired of “performing” and want intimacy that feels good
- You're feeling anxious or overwhelmed when intimacy gets close
- You're struggling with echoes of past trauma or pain in your relationships.
- You’re a creative professional who needs clear, respectful boundaries on set
- You’ve done talk therapy but still feel stuck in your body or in patterns
You don’t need to fix yourself — you need support that helps you feel safe enough to reconnect with your body, your truth, and your desires.
Let’s work together to build intimacy that works for you.
Schedule Your Free 20-Minute Clarity Call
Warm Hello,
I’m Viktoria—the heart and soul behind Playful Loving.
As a trauma-informed Holistic Intimacy Coach and Mentor for individuals and couples for over 20 years, I also serve as an Intimacy Coordinator and Intimacy Director in the film/TV industry.
My Blend of Coaching
I blend ancient wisdom of Daoist, Tantra, and Kink with modern science of conscious connection to guide individuals, couples, and creatives into deeper connection, embodied confidence, and joy—rooted in self-awareness, conscious relating, and the safe, consensual, empowered expression of desire.
My work weaves somatic healing, emotional awareness, and compassionate communication into a grounded, ethical, and transformative approach to intimacy.
Craving Real Change?
Rediscover your capacity for connection, presence, and joy!
Ready to transform your intimacy? Let’s explore what’s alive for you now.
Schedule Your Free 20-Minute Clarity CallDon't have a clear path yet?
Browse Popular Classes.
Orgasms for Women & Men
This enlightening lecture and guided meditation class will reveal how to awaken your orgasmic potential. Harness your body’s life-force energy to heal, center, and nurture yourself.
SAT, AUG 23 @10am
Bound with Love
Curious about the intersection of Tantra and sensual rope play? Learn to master communication, build trust, and ignite a deeper, more playful connection.
SAT, AUG 23 @12pm
Tantralicious
Join us and dive into the fun with guided sensory adventures! The ultimate playful relating & conscious connection challenge for singles and couples, with a different theme each time.
FRI, AUG 29 @7:30pm
What can you expect from Viktoria's coaching?
Viktoria blends ancient wisdom and modern science to cultivate confidence, connection, and joy—helping you feel truly alive. When you show up with authenticity, passion, and presence, connection flows effortlessly. No matter which offering you choose, you can always count on three things:
Embodied Confidence
Trauma-informed and rooted in somatic practices, this is where self-assurance begins—feel empowered in your body, boundaries, and relationships.
Deep Connection
Cultivate meaningful intimacy with yourself and others through presence, self-awareness, and the embodied expression of authentic connection.
Joyful Expression
Awaken your passion pathway through healing, vitality, and the ethical, empowered expression of erotic intimacy.
Coaching
Means
Guided
Breakthroughs
Ready to transform your connection and intimacy?
Let's explore what's possible together.
Have fun and get the intimacy you truly desire--
without shame, pressure, or needing to have it all figured out. This isn't about perfect techniques or scripted roles. It's about discovering your unique desires, honoring your truth, and feeling safe enough to express it all.
Whether you're new to this journey or seeking a deeper layer, I'm here to guide you with trauma-informed care, somatic embodiment practices, and soulful support.
This is your sacred return --
to connection that ignites, to intimacy that breathes, and to a life that pulses with passion and presence.
Ready to...
Ready to melt the mask, reclaim desire, and embody love—fully, freely, fearlessly? ✨ Somatic healing. Conscious intimacy. Nervous system-safe transformation.
Together
Together, we will explore vulnerability, unlock deeper connection, and empower your authentic expression of intimacy.
Ready for True Transformation?
Begin Your Journey.
Schedule Your Free 20-Minute Clarity Call
Davide
"Hi Viktoria, I wanted to tell you it was great and eventful to have the chance to meet you at your Compassionate Communication class. Your personality emanates strong vibrations of self awareness and self consciousness. Your sight is deep and profound. Your presence makes me feel safe and in peace. I totally admire you."
H & C
"Viktoria met and exceeded our high expectations. The guided work was perfect to explore ourselves, partner, our relationship and how we communicate. The program allowed us to dig deep within ourselves to discover wounds and experiences that keep us from fully loving.
Her perceptiveness to quickly discern potential relationship issues and provide insightful questioning and suggestions is truly remarkable. She helped us take our most intimate relationship to a higher level."
A & R
"Working with Viktoria has been a beautiful experience. Her approach to teaching made me feel deeply validated and more grounded in my body. Through the thoughtful exercises and focus on compassionate communication I gained a further profound understanding of who I am and my inner world at this moment.
This newfound connection has enriched my relationship with my husband. He was motivated and keen to appreciate and support our similar and different needs in our intimate relationship. It’s an ongoing discussion and always mutually respectful. I am truly grateful for her wisdom and guidance."
Dawn
"I really enjoyed getting to know you and I was impressed with your insights and observations. I find you very intuitive, forthright and understanding. I very much appreciate this. I feel the session was helpful and a good introduction to helping me get rid of emotional blocks and healing my trauma. It feels like the beginning of something new. I actually feel different in myself. It’s hard to explain but perhaps some stuff has already shifted. Thank you."
Clive
"I met Viktoria in 2012 and have been weaving tantra into my daily life ever since. I have attended many of her workshops on tantra, intimacy and relationships. She lives what she teaches, which is what I value highly. She has a way of allowing me to be curious. Even when inside, I want to run away."
Veronika
"I met Viktoria online because I was searching for some tantra and sexual education for myself. Once I enrolled into her tantra for women program – I was enjoying every session. The quantum of information and practise/exercices I received is priceless. I would recommend her services to anyone who is into tantra, sacred sexuality and kink. BTW – I did Pooja ceremony in Salt room with Viktoria in Waterloo as well. 5* experience for emotions and energy field is guaranteed!!!"
